Monday, February 8, 2010

In the wee small hours of the morning


Being the mushy girl that I am, I spent a lot of time as a teenager thinking and dreaming about the boy I'd marry someday. And I really love my bed. I could write an entire post just on how much I love my bed. So I loved to curl up and fantasize about who he was or how we'd meet. (Let's be honest, I got to a point where I knew that I wasn't going to meet him in Helena.)

When the movie "Sleepless in Seattle" came out I had just turned 16. I was so in love with just the movie poster that I knew I'd love the movie. I actually used to want to get the poster from a video shop and put it in my bedroom. I just love the two characters staring out into the distance waiting and wondering about each other. Sigh...

This is a section of the movie for your enjoyment. Two things I love about it:
1) The scene with Annie and Becky watching "An Affair To Remember" and bawling and crying over it, especially when they mouth "Winter must be cold for those with no warm memories. We've already missed the spring." (2:12 through 4:36 if you want to skip ahead)

2) After Sam puts Jonah back to sleep and Annie leaves Becky for the night, Sam and Annie sit outside and look up and out into the distance. The look on Annie's face as the wind plays with her hair is great! I never have liked the song that played in that scene, but I love how they look. (6:35 through 8:10)


When I'd steal my mom's Sleepless in Seattle soundtrack tape (Cassette tapes. Now those were the days!) and cuddle up to my huge boom box on my bed at night, one of my favorite songs to listen to was "In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning" by Carly Simon. (Originally a Frank Sinatra song, I think?) I always wished it was the one playing in the scene where they're both outside thinking and dreaming. I'm not sure at the moment what part of the movie it's in, but it's wonderful and sappy. It always fit the mood I was in as a teenage girl. It was a fun time that I look back on with fondness. Can I still say HOORAY for being on the other side however?! :o)

If I were on the poster that I love, I'd have something like the Sleeping Giant mountain behind me. Helena is a cool old town and I'm sure I could find a lovely backdrop. I asked Ross if his hometown, Garden Grove, California, had any prominent landmarks or something that it was known for. He replied with "The Crystal Cathedral". Uh, no. Then he reminded me that his house was 4 blocks from Seal Beach, a 1/2 mile from Cypress, and Westminster was just on the other side of the freeway from his high school. Guess there's not quite the same small townish feel there! I do know, however, that Garden Grove used to be known for it's strawberries, so Ross's half of the imaginary poster can have strawberry fields in it. Go ahead an laugh at the silly image of this poster now. hahaha

I'm getting into the wee small hours of the morning now, but I do have to tell you I'm enjoying myself with all this romantic stuff!


Sunday, February 7, 2010

Idaho hiccups are embarrassing


Ross and I met through my cousin and his buddy from his mission to Brazil. They were dating and because I was always with Michelle and Ross was roommates with Brian, Ross and I got thrown together a lot just after we met. Neither of us claim love at first sight, but we were definitely curious about each other. And wouldn't you know it? During all that "get to know you" stuff we ended up embarrassing ourselves at least a few times.

One night we went to a midnight movie at Varsity Theatre on the BYU campus. I don't think we were very early for it because when we got there there weren't enough seats for all of us together. Somehow I ended up sitting on a row on the side of the theater next to Ross. There were only four seats there and the other two were taken by Brian's friend Gary (whom Michelle ended up marrying, but that's another story!) and Gary's brother. Michelle and Brian kept walking up towards the front and when Michelle realized I hadn't gone with her she was shocked. (I guess she knew I wasn't normally very forward!) And then the small talk started...

We talked about this and that, but to this day we still laugh about what Ross said. First he asked where I was from and I told him Montana. The conversation progressed to what I was majoring in. I didn't hesitate in telling him English because that had always been my plan. I then explained that I wasn't in school right then, that I was working for Novell, what I did there, blah, blah, blah. He then said, "So...if you were in school, what would you be majoring in?" Yep. I just looked at him and said, "Um, English." Poor guy felt kinda stupid. Right up until he asked me, "What part of Idaho are you from again?" Poor guy kinda felt stupider. ;o)

One of my embarrassing moments was a night we went to a playground with Michelle and Brian. We weren't doing anything special, just talking and playing around. All of a sudden I got the LOUDEST hiccups! I couldn't seem to keep them quiet or control how quickly they came. I guess I should be glad that's the worst my body was doing? But still, embarrassing at the time and now whenever I get the hiccups like that we refer to them as "playground hiccups". Silly, but true.

Thankfully I know I am not the only one who's had these experiences. My sister-in-law Celina was in a group for a class with my brother Jeff and she was elected by everyone else to be the one who told Jeff his zipper was down! Embarrassing for both of them, I think. She also called him Jay for a while before he had to finally correct her.

I also know a girl, who shall remain nameless ;o), but can reveal herself in the comments if she really wants to, who went four wheeling (I think?) with a cute boy and then ended up puking into the safety helmet she was borrowing. Poor girl!

I was going to put a clip on here to represent this kind of a moment, but I could only find it in Hungarian (of all the random languages)! It was from a very short lived musical TV series from 1990 called Hull High. I'm not even sure why this sticks out in my memory. There's a scene where a guy named Mark meets new girl Camilla and is taken with her. As they talk she says she's moved from Philadelphia, to which he blurts out, "Liberty Bell!" She looks at him weird and moves on. As she walks away it shows him banging his head on the locker, grumbling, "Liberty Bell..." haha

Did you humiliate yourself in front of your future spouse, former boyfriend, a crush you had, or even just a cute guy you didn't know? Raise your hand out there in cyberspace!

Also, in honor of that English major Ross had to ask me about twice, here's one of my favorite love poems by Carol Lynn Pearson:


My Context
You love me

Out of context.

You love me as a noun

Lifted from sentence,

Paragraph, page.

But seeing me

Surrounded by

All my other nouns,
My verbs, adverbs, adjectives,

And now and again
An expletive--

Would you love me then?

Or could you love me,

Maybe, even more?


When you have found
How complex compound

My structure is,

When you have seen
My meaning multiply
And multiply,

When you know

Not only where

I am written

But how I function--

Would you,
Could you care to join me
In some marvelous

Conjunction?

Saturday, February 6, 2010

LOVE is Families

I believe there is a Plan. A Plan of Salvation. A Plan of Happiness. My religion has taught me so since I was a little girl and I truly have a testimony of it. The Lord directs our paths and has laid before us the way to find true happiness. It is not by chance that we are placed in families. No mistake that we are given mothers and fathers to watch over and care for us. To have brothers and sisters who grow and learn with us. To have grandparents who spoil us and smother us in kisses. To have aunts who pinch our cheeks and uncles to wrestle with us. To have cousins who can be more than just friends because of the blood bond shared. It's a blessing beyond anything.

Falling in love is a gorgeous thing. Staying in love is even better. I love the romance and all the sweet things that happen because of it. I'm just glad there's more to it than that. I'm thankful that I fell in love with my husband and that we together were blessed by the Lord with a family. Loving my children makes me love my husband even more. It's a challenge to be on the same page sometimes as we parent, but working through it as a team strengthens our relationship and in turn, strengthens our family.

I heard a quote once that said something like "The best thing a father can do for his children is love their mother." It goes the other way as well. I'm still uplifted to see my parents in love 40 plus years later and my in-laws in love 50 plus years later. I want to pass that legacy on to my children as well.

My mood tonight with this post is not quite as giddy and silly as it has been because of an e-mail I got from my sweet, sweet sister-in-law Celeste. She sent it to the other women on my Lay side asking that we please pray for her friend Sara whose little toddler is in the PICU at Primary Children's Medical Center. He had an accident in the bathtub and somehow miraculously survived. Sara is chronicling their experience on their family blog so they have a record of it and to keep friends and family updated. I read about their experiences over the last week and of her account of the tragedy. I am floored at the miracles they've already experienced, at the hundreds of comments pouring our faith and prayers and love from friends, family, and many strangers, of the rock she says her husband has been for her, and for her decision to replace fear with faith.
I want to pass on her words, as so many others have been, to you. Their blog address is http://stakerzxposed.blogspot.com/
or just click here.

If we follow the Lord's will for us, according to His Plan, we will find someone to fall in love with, to marry and start a family with, and to go through the eternities with. That is probably the most romantic thing of all. So tonight, I am in love with this:

Friday, February 5, 2010

The Heartbreak Of It All

In the clip I posted the other day with Dorothy Jane Torkelson, she says, "I guess you can't have absolute joy without absolute despair." It's horrible, but there is an aspect of love that isn't any fun. The break-ups, disappointments, unrequited love, and other unpleasantries that sometimes occur in a relationship are difficult, but it's amazing to see something go from so bad to beyond what had been imagined. As far as storytelling goes, real or fiction, the triumph over the hard times is one of the best things to watch!

This is a part of the movie "Sense and Sensibility" from the 1995 version. Kate Winslet is so completely amazing in it. You truly believe that her heart has just been shattered into a million pieces as she goes into the shock of her rejection, then weakly attempts to defend Willoughby, but finally breaks as she realizes all her hopes are crumbling down around her. And then Mrs. Jennings comes in and her help is no help at all! The writing and acting in this scene are superb. As Marianne crys, you want to cry. Very sad, but very romantic. Especially when you think about the fact that Marianne is such a romantic herself with all the poems and novels she reads.

(If you don't want to watch all 9 plus minutes, Marianne sees Willoughby at the dance at about 3:20 and reads his letter at about 7:30. But really, the whole thing is great!)


Thursday, February 4, 2010

How Kissing Was Discovered


I
am currently reading a book by Lucy Maud Montgomery entitled "The Story Girl". I've read it and its sequel, "The Golden Road" a number of times. The books don't really even have a lot of romance in them as far as the main characters are concerned. It's a sweet little story about a group of mostly cousins and a summer spent together (as well as the following year in the sequel). The books were used to base the series "Road to Avonlea" on. I remember how I loved to watch that show on the Disney Channel. The costumes, the scenery, the characters! And I love how the Anne of Green Gables world was woven into the storyline as well even though the books don't have anything to do with each other.

L. M. Montgomery is by far my favorite author. I read everything I can get my hands on by her. She may get a little flowery with her descriptions, but the style is oh-so-romantic just the same! The time period she wrote in is the one I'd love to have lived in the most throughout history.

So tonight I want to share an excerpt from the book of a story that the Story Girl tells. It's fanciful and a little silly, but I love it anyway. It's a kind of long, but worth the read!

The Story Girl was barefooted and barearmed, having rolled the sleeves of her pink gingham up to her shoulders. Around her waist was twisted a girdle of the blood-red roses that bloomed in Aunt Olivia's garden; on her sleek curls she wore a chaplet of them; and her hands were full of them.

She paused under the outmost tree, in a golden-green gloom, and laughed at us over a big branch. Her wild, subtle, nameless charm clothed her as with a garment. We always remembered the picture she made there; and in later days when we read Tennyson's poems at a college desk, we knew exactly how an oread, peering through the green leaves on some haunted knoll of many fountained Ida, must look.

"Felicity," said the Story Girl reproachfully, "what have you been doing to Peter? He's up there sulking in the granary, and he won't come down, and he says it's your fault. You must have hurt his feelings dreadfully."

"I don't know about his feelings," said Felicity, with an angry toss of her shining head, "but I guess I made his ears tingle all right. I boxed them both good and hard."

"Oh, Felicity! What for?"

"Well, he tried to kiss me, that's what for!" said Felicity, turning very red. "As if I would let a hired boy kiss me! I guess Master Peter won't try anything like that again in a hurry."

The Story Girl came out of her shadows and sat down beside us on the grass.

"Well, in that case," she said gravely, "I think you did right to slap his ears–not because he is a hired boy, but because it would be impertinent in any boy. But talking of kissing makes me think of a story I found in Aunt Olivia's scrapbook the other day. Wouldn't you like to hear it? It is called, 'How Kissing Was Discovered.' "

"Wasn't kissing always discovered?" asked Dan.

"Not according to this story. It was just discovered accidentally."

"Well, let's hear about it," said Felix, "though I think kissing's awful silly, and it wouldn't have mattered much if it hadn't ever been discovered."

The Story Girl scattered her roses around her on the grass, and clasped her slim hands over her knees. Gazing dreamily afar at the tinted sky between the apple trees, as if she were looking back to the merry days of the world's gay youth, she began, her voice giving to the words and fancies of the old tale the delicacy of hoar frost and the crystal sparkle of dew.

"It happened long, long ago in Greece–where so many other beautiful things happened. Before that, nobody had ever heard of kissing. And then it was just discovered in the twinkling of an eye. And a man wrote it down and the account has been preserved ever since.

"There was a young shepherd named Glaucon–a very handsome young shepherd–who lived in a little village called Thebes. It became a very great and famous city afterwards, but at this time it was only a little village, very quiet and simple. Too quiet for Glaucon's liking. He grew tired of it, and he thought he would like to go away from home and see something of the world. So he took his knapsack and his shepherd's crook, and wandered away until he came to Thessaly. That is the land of the gods' hill, you know. The name of the hill was Olympus. But it has nothing to do with this story. This happened on another mountain–Mount Pelion.

"Glaucon hired himself to a wealthy man who had a great many sheep. And every day Glaucon had to lead the sheep up to pasture on Mount Pelion, and watch them while they ate. There was nothing else to do, and he would have found the time very long, if he had not been able to play on a flute. So he played very often and very beautifully, as he sat under the trees and watched the wonderful blue sea afar off, and thought about Aglaia.

"Aglaia was his master's daughter. She was so sweet and beautiful that Glaucon fell in love with her the very moment he first saw her; and when he was not playing his flute on the mountain he was thinking about Aglaia, and dreaming that some day he might have flocks of his own, and a dear little cottage down in the valley where he and Aglaia might live.

"Aglaia had fallen in love with Glaucon just as he had with her. But she never let him suspect it for ever so long. He did not know how often she would steal up the mountain and hide behind the rocks near where the sheep pastured, to listen to Glaucon's beautiful music. It was very lovely music, because he was always thinking of Aglaia while he played, though he little dreamed how near him she often was.

"But after awhile Glaucon found out that Aglaia loved him, and everything was well. Nowadays I suppose a wealthy man like Aglaia's father wouldn't be willing to let his daughter marry a hired man; but this was in the Golden Age, you know, when nothing like that mattered at all.

"After that, almost every day Aglaia would go up the mountain and sit beside Glaucon, as he watched the flocks and played on his flute. But he did not play as much as he used to, because he liked better to talk with Aglaia. And in the evening they would lead the sheep home together.

"One day Aglaia went up the mountain by a new way, and she came to a little brook. Something was sparkling very brightly among its pebbles. Aglaia picked it up, and it was the most beautiful little stone that she had ever seen. It was only as large as a pea, but it glittered and flashed in the sunlight with every colour of the rainbow. Aglaia was so delighted with it that she resolved to take it as a present to Glaucon.

"But all at once she heard a stamping of hoofs behind her, and when she turned she almost died from fright. For there was the great god, Pan, and he was a very terrible object, looking quite as much like a goat as a man. The gods were not all beautiful, you know. And, beautiful or not, nobody ever wanted to meet them face to face.

"'Give that stone to me,' said Pan, holding out his hand.

"But Aglaia, though she was frightened, would not give him the stone.

"'I want it for Glaucon,' she said.

"'I want it for one of my wood nymphs,' said Pan, 'and I must have it.'

"He advanced threateningly, but Aglaia ran as hard as she could up the mountain. If she could only reach Glaucon he would protect her. Pan followed her, clattering and bellowing terribly, but in a few minutes she rushed into Glaucon's arms.

"The dreadful sight of Pan and the still more dreadful noise he made, so frightened the sheep that they fled in all directions. But Glaucon was not afraid at all, because Pan was the god of shepherds, and was bound to grant any prayer a good shepherd, who always did his duty, might make. If Glaucon had not been a good shepherd dear knows what would have happened to him and Aglaia. But he was; and when he begged Pan to go away and not frighten Aglaia any more, Pan had to go, grumbling a good deal–and Pan's grumblings had a very ugly sound. But still he went, and that was the main thing.

"'Now, dearest, what is all this trouble about?' asked Glaucon; and Aglaia told him the story.

"'But where is the beautiful stone?' he asked, when she had finished. 'Didst thou drop it in thy alarm?'

"No, indeed! Aglaia had done nothing of the sort. When she began to run, she had popped it into her mouth, and there it was still, quite safe. Now she poked it out between her red lips, where it glittered in the sunlight.

"'Take it,' she whispered.

"The question was–how was he to take it? Both of Aglaia's arms were held fast to her sides by Glaucon's arms; and if he loosened his clasp ever so little he was afraid she would fall, so weak and trembling was she from her dreadful fright. Then Glaucon had a brilliant idea. He would take the beautiful stone from Aglaia's lips with his own lips.

"He bent over until his lips touched hers–and then, he forgot all about the beautiful pebble and so did Aglaia. Kissing was discovered!

I searched and searched for a clip that I love and have seen on YouTube before, but to no avail. There was an episode of "Avonlea" during the second season called "How Kissing Was Discovered" where Felicity has a crush on a young man and she tries desperately to get his attention and grow up probably a little faster than she should. If you're familiar with the series, it's the episode that introduces Gus Pike. Gus actually tries to help her in her silly quest. The ending scene is my favorite where she and Gus are in the loft together. I decided to link you to a fan made video of Felicity and Gus because at the beginning it shows the scenes (unfortunately with no dialogue) from that episode. The special effects are a little much for me, but otherwise there's lots of great kisses and looks as their relationship progresses through the rest of the series. (I especially love the look she gives the ship as it sails across the horizon!)

Okay, I did find the loft clip, but it's not in English. Mostly I love Felicity's face as she touches her hand to her lips. Ahh, the thrills! Here's what the dialogue is according to someone who commented on the video:

Gus: "Haven't got that kiss you were looking for?
Felicity:"I wouldn't know how anyway... I wish there were a book one could study, manual on how to kiss.
Gus:"Nothing special to it. All it takes is practice.
Felicity:"What makes you an expert?
Felicity (after Gus kisses her):"Gus Pike, how dare you?!
Gus:"Its better than kissing my dog!
Gus(as Felicity touches her lips):"See ya!

Gus is not in the books, but he made a wonderful addition to a beautiful series! So when did you discover the kiss?



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

I LOVE all that romantical stuff!



Valentine's Day can bring on many emotions. I know so many people who think it's just a holiday that the greeting card companies made up. Or there's those who hate the day because they don't have someone to share it with and feel that that fact is glaringly obvious every February 14th. Then there's people that love all the "candy, flowers, chocolate, promises you don't intend to keep" (to quote Cogsworth from Beauty and the Beast) and go all out.

Personally, I've always enjoyed it even when I didn't have anyone to share it with. I guess I just felt optimistic that maybe something special would happen (no, nothing ever did) and I knew that eventually I would have a sweetheart. I was engaged before I spent a Valentine's Day with anyone, but I have always been a "mush-head" about all things romance. I spent many hours thinking and dreaming and talking late into the night with my friends and cousins about all those wonderful things we hoped would happen to us.

I've also just been in a mushy mood lately. I've really been loving and appreciating my husband. I still love romantic movies, songs, books, clips on YouTube. You name it. I eat it up and really enjoy it!

In honor of my mood, the month, all the people I love, I decided I wanted to post some of my favorite romantic things. I'd like to take credit for this idea, but it's not original to me. Just the same, I'm looking forward to finding and sharing all the little things that have given me thrills, a swoop in my stomach, made me cry or laugh or whatever over the years.

To begin, let me share a clip from one of my all time favorite shows, The Torkelsons. It was a show that only lasted one season. (Sort of. I'm not sure if the revamp "Almost Home" counts.) It was on in 1991 when I was 14, a freshman in high school, and during which time I was in the middle of a crush on an older boy named Jamie. It's main character was a 14 year old girl named Dorothy Jane. She loved poetry and romance. She talked to "The Man in the Moon" from her bedroom window. She had a crush on the too-old-for-her boy next door. Wow, could I relate! (Yes, I know I am a big dork.)

Anyway, here's one of my favorite scenes from an episode called "The Ice Princess". (I highly recommend watching the whole episode if you're feeling mushy too.) The best part is Dorothy Jane's monologue from the part where the music starts. Love how she says, "I'm a bundle of feelings. I feel 24 hours all day and all night." It's just so good.

I also love this sound clip. It's from a Cary Grant movie called "None But the Lonely Heart". I've never seen it, but I love this clip. Sometimes we act the way we do and feel the things we feel because it just needs to be part of us. I think I talked to Jamie about 5 times in the two and a half years I had a school girl crush on him. I'm pretty sure he knew, his friends knew, people who didn't even know me knew. Pathetic, but part of me and I love the memories of that time in my life.

And last of all, for tonight anyway, I want to share a favorite "hopeful" love song. It is called "En Attendant Ses Pas" which roughly means "While Waiting For His Steps". (The basic English translation is on this video. Just ignore all the pics of Celine vamping for the camera!) It's pretty self explanatory. I love the upbeat tune and optimism of it. There's no need to lament not having a lover. We can still make ourselves all we should be while we wait for someone to add more. :o)

P.S. Yes, I know that "romantical" doesn't sound like a real word. I read some debate online about whether or not it actually was. It sounds fun for my post title though, so I'm going with it!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

News of Nephew Nolan!

My little sister Wendy had her baby yesterday! I am so excited for her and I'm wishing that Salt Lake was closer. I am very excited to meet her new baby boy. It was great to talk to her tonight and hear her story about how it all went and how little Nolan Scott Vincent is doing. You can look at him in all his cuteness here.

She was getting really tired of being pregnant. Don't we all feel that way when it comes time to have the baby and NOTHING'S HAPPENING?! I sent her this video from Shrek the Musical. My niece Lauren loves musical theater and referred to it on Facebook. When I saw it, I thought it fit Wendy's situation. Well, at least the part where she sings, "THE WAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIITING!" :o)

Love my sister. So happy for her and Mike and new big sister Cecily. I love the happy moments of life. Babies are wonderful blessings. Ross and I counted our nieces and nephews last night. Nolan, who is named after my mom's dad and Mike's father (Scott is Mike's middle name as well), is number 35 of all our nieces and nephews on both sides. Isn't that awesome? I love. love, love it.